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Encourage growth and developement
Nurture
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Providing care, support, and love in a way that leads to a childs total developement
Parenting
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What a person is capable of becoming
Potential
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Beliefs about what is right, worthwhile, or desirable.
Values
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Someone whose role is to love, care for, and guide a child
Caregiver
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Viewing without judgment or interpretation
Objective
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Something that individuals or families can use to accomplish a goal
Resources
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A person whose behavior and attitudes are imitated by others
Role model
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Parenting style in which parents are strong leaders who make most decisions concerning children and expect children to accept their judgement
Authoritarian
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Parenting style in which parents consider both the childs needs and their own point of view when making decisions
Democratic
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A conscious aim that requires planning an effort to reach
Goal
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Particular way that a parent consistantly behaves toward children
Parenting styles
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Parenting style in which parents generally give children all the decision-making responsibility they can handle, offering guidance and protection as needed and relying on natural consequences rather than imposing them
Permissive
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The sum total of a persons emotional, social, and intellectual characteristics
Personality
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Consists of two parents,one or both of whom have children from a previous relationship
Blended family
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Using tact and skill when dealing with others
Diplomacy
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Name for a family unit consisting of all the immediate relatives in a family, such as grandparents,aunts, uncles, and cousins
Extended family
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Consists of a a mother, a father, and one or more biological or adopted children
Nuclear family
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A part one plays when interacting with others
Role
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Consists of only one parent and one or more children
Single-parent family
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A person whose spouse has children from an earlier relationship
Stepparent
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After a year of marriage, isabel began to wish for a child. For isabel and victor, the decision to be made was clear, should we have a child now?
Identify the exact decision to be made
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Victor and isabel identified two options, either to have a child or not.
List all the options
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Knowing their decision would have long lasting consequences, victor and isabel thought carefully. They were anxious to start a family, and isabels parents wanted a grandchild. On the other hand, isabel and victor needed time together as a couple. Moreover, isabel was taking classes that would prepare her for a career and a bettter income
Weigh the pros and cons of each option
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Victor and isabel asked themselves, what's important to us and our future family? By examining their priorities, they could see what meant the most to them
Consider values
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As much as isabel and victor wanted to have a baby, they decided to wait and reconsider in a year. They listed ways to prepare for parenting. Exploring options and values gave them confidence in their decision
Make a decision and take action
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A year later, isabel and victor reviewed their list and progress. Their financial situation was better, and isabel was only a few months from graduation. For them, the decision making process was beginning again
Evaluate the results and take responsibility for the consequences
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