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How do families serve society?
- Reproduction
- Economic Services
- Social Order
- Socialization
- Emotional Support
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a view of the family as a complex set of interacting relationships influenced by the larger social conflict
Social systems perspective
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The study of "families" has evolved from one emphasizing the mother-child relationship in a unidirectional way (mother to child) to what?
one that assumes bidirectional influences with multiple persons
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Influences on child development are....
bidirectional and constantly changing
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Important contributions of external social networks:
provide acceptance, information, parenting models, and direct assistance.
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The contributions of external social networks results in:
less stress and fewer child behavior problems
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The Parenting Styles identified by Baumrind:
- Authoritarian Parents
- Authoritative Parents
- Permissive Parents
- Uninvolved Parents
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this type of parent is very strict, punshiment oriented, little/no rewards for good behavior, epect unquestioned obediance, lots of rules often unreasonable
Authoritarian Parents
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these types of parents combine reasonable rules, standards, and consequences with warmth, open communiation, and nurturing
Authoritative Parents
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these types of parents have few/no rules, no consequences, may be warm and supportive
Permissive Parents
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These types of parents are detached, withdrawn, absent, neglectful.
Uninvolved Parents
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What are the two dimensions of parenting that Maccoby and Martic identified?
- Demandingness (High Vs. Low)
- Responsiveness (High Vs. Low)
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Maccoby and Martin's dimension of Demandingness:
standards, rules, consequences
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Maccoby and Martin's dimension of Responsiveness:
warmth, nurturing
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Maccoby and Martin's two dimensions of parenting tyles results in 4 parenting styles:
- "Authoritative": high, high
- "Permissive": low, high
- "Authoritarian: high, low
- "Uninvolved": low, low
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Baumrind identified 3 aspects of Authoritative parents that set them apart from the other styles:
- unconditional love and acceptance
- appropriate behavioral control
- regular involvement
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In middle childhood the amount of time children spend with parents dramatically declines. New issues include:
- responsibility
- leisure time
- peer influences
- academic issues
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What do effective parents use?
co-regulation
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as the child becomes more mature and responsible, the parent gradually gives them more control and independence.
Co-Regulation
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School aged children seek _____ but still recognize they need their _____ AND claim their parents ar the most important individuals in their lives.
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Adolescence: need for autonomy has both an ______ and ____ component and is closely related to their quest for ______.
- emotional and behavioral
- identity
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The most adaptive situation: adolescents achieve autonomy in a warm and supportive family leads to:
higher self-esteem, independence, and stronger work ethic
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Authoritative Parents: establish flexible _____, open ______, and an atmosphere of ____ and _____ gradual modification of _____ with increasing age.
- guidelines
- discusiion
- concern and fairness
- rules
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In Conflict-ridden families, autonomy takes on a different importance as it allows the adolescent to .....
escape
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The average # of children decreased from ____ to _____ over 40 years.
3.1 to 1.8
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Children in smaller families:
- more attention and resources
- better overall health
- higher education levels
- better grades
- fewer behavioral problems
- parents are more patient and less punitive
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____ is believed to contribute to the observed negative effects of growing up in large families
SES
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Pros of having only one child:
- no sibling rivalry
- more quality time
- improved finances
- more privacy
- closer relationship
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Cons of having only one child:
- no sibling relationship
- more pressure to succeed
- concern about spoiling
- what if something happens to child
- concern about aging parents
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Adopted children are more likely to exhibit learning or emotional problems, probably because of....
their histories and/or birth parents
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Genetic differences between child and adoptive parents may threaten....
family harmony
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Children adopted LATER (after infancy) are more likely to have:
- missed out on early bonding experiences
- experienced stressful situations
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The vast majority of adoptive parents report being _____ with their choice and experiences (even those with special needs children.)
satisfied
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Adopted children commonly report unresolved curiosity during their _____ years--- as they search for their ______.
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Generally speaking, children raised in gay and lesbian families are equal to children heterosexual families in....
developmental milestones
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Gay and Lesbian parents are more likely than heterosexual parents to use ______ parenting style and promote _____.
- authoritative
- healthy ideas about self-worth, equality, etc.
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_____% of American children have one parent who has never married. Of these ____ % are mother and ____% are fathers.
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The largest demographic group having children and remaining single are _____ women.
African American
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The most common problem amongst single mothers is _____. This is believed to account for the behavior and academic problems more commonly observed in their children.
poverty
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____% of marriages end in divorce, and ___% of those involve children.
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At any given time, _____ of children in the US live with only one of their parents.
1/4
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_____ of divorced parents remarry.
2/3
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The effects of divorce vary from child to child, largely depending on:
- Parents Mental Health
- Child's Traits (age, sex, personality)
- Social Support
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What are the immediate consequences of divorce?
- lower income
- possible moving
- changes in parenting
- loss of routine
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Children may react with distress and anger, which result in _____
more punitive discipline by the custodial parent
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What are the longterm conseqences of divorce?
- lower self-esteem
- social, emotional, or behavior problems
- (adjustment improves within 2 years, for most)
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Important factors for long-term outcomes of divorce:
- contact with both parents
- parenting styles
- social support
- parents who work together
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When does divorce have less negative outcomes?
in severly conflicted homes
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What are the most common type of blended families?
mom-stepdad
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Blending families is a ______ transition for most children.
stressful
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What can make blending families more difficult?
major changes; gradual transitions with gradual changes are better
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Who has the most problems with transition of blending families?
older children and girls
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Remarriage of the _____ is especially disruptive if he/she has custody.
father
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Who struggles more with divorce?
boys
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_____% of all mothers in the US are emplyed.
- 68%
- 64% in PS years
- 78% in middle childhood
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Generally speaking, children of mothers who enjoy their work and remain committed to parenting show very favorable adjustment, including:
- higher self-esteem
- beter grades
- better family and peer ineractions
- fewer gender stereotypes
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Children of working mothers develop more equalitarian values about _____.
gender roles
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Daughters of working mothers.....
stay in school longer and perceive women as having more choices
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When a mom is working, less favorable outcomes occur when?
- both parents work OT
- use poor parenting styles
- spend less time with kids
- if dad doesn't support mom working
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What are effects of daycare?
- better social skills
- higher confidence
- more aggression
- more non-compliance
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In general, researchers agress that, children below age ____ are not equipped to handle emergiencies and should NEVER be left alone.
9
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In general researchers agree that younger school-aged children who spend more time alone have more _____ problems.
adjustment
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In general, researchers agree that self-care outcomes are greater if the child:
- has been reared with authoritative parenting
- is monitored from a distance
- has regular chores after school (routine)
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________ does the best job of explaining how and why abuse happens.
social systems perspective
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What factors contribute to divorce?
- parent variables
- child variables
- family variables
- communities
- cultures
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What parent variables contribute to abuse?
- unreasonable expectations
- mental illness
- drug/alcohol abuse
- very young/uneducated
- history of abuse
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What child variables contribute to abuse?
any type of disability, illness, or behavior problems
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What family variables contribute to abuse?
- low income
- overcrowding
- large family
- stress
- SOCIAL ISOLATION
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How do communities contribute to abuse?
few resources/activites for families
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How do cultures contribute to abuse?
some promote the use of force and violence
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What cultures is child abuse loest in?
ones that disapprove of physical punishment (e.g. Sweden)
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Consequences of Maltreatment:
- low self-esteem
- impaired social skills
- aggression
- substance abuse
- depression/suicide
- learning problems
- poor motivation
- delinquency
- academic failure
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How many victims of abuse repeat the CYCLE?
about 1/4 to 1/3 become abusers
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Preventing Maltreatment:
- parent training
- social support
- income improvements
- crisis intervention
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Problems with intervention for abuse
- abuse is hard to define/ even harder to provechildren viewed as property
- courts prefer rehab
- children often want to stay home
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