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Erikson
- Intimacy vs. Isolation
- Intimacy: caring/sharing + phys intimacy, selflessness, solid sense of ego
- Not accmpl- sense of isolation
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Sullivan- Love:
- Love exists when other prn's satisfaction & security are important as 1's own (or more)
- parenting, friendships, romantic relationships
- Some never reach this->never reach this level of selflessness
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Parenthood
- 1. Inner dev'tal need to complete life's cycle and give life to next gen
- 2. External pressure's may hinder capacity towards parenthood/interfere with one's ability to give generously (teenage mom inner city)
- 3. Internal motives- unrelaistic expectations on child
- 4. Coflicts around certain stages of dev't
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Daniel N. Stern & Preg/childbirth
- Normative crisis: rapid cahnge and relationship between mom/baby
- Survival growth theme
- Supportive matrix: looks to helper from her side, pref another woman; should od what mom wants and not challenge parenting methods (usurp mother)
- Identity reorganization theme
Husband feels distanced (nesting, wife withdraws , dec sexual activity)
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Work
- 27% professional mroe than 50 hrs.
- Mentor must be found
- "Elsewhere Generation"
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Facts
- Dependence vs. Separateness
- family friendships
- Play- relieve stress, find something to do fun everyday
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Carol Gilligan
- diff then Kohlberg
- Moral dilemma
- Men- terms of law and consequences
- Women- term of relationships
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JW Lewis
- health relationships
- fun together, enjoy activities together, afectionate- erotic & non erotic, listen, empathetic, able to explore their feelings
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