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Name the 4 stages in Bowlby's attachement theory

Bowbly stage. Protects the person from the full impact of the loss. Greiving person describes this phase as feeling "stunned" or "unreal"

Bowbly stage. Can last for months. Person can have emotional outbursts of tearful sobbing and acute distress. some physical symptoms include: sob, lethargy insomnia, loss of appetite, tight chest

Bowbly stage. A person endlessly examines how and why the loss occurred, or expresses anger at anyone who seems respnsible for the loss. gradually realizes the loss is permanent. Somtimes retells the loss story again and again.

Bowbly stage. Usually takes a year or more. the person begins to accept change building new relationships. Begin to untie themselves from thir lost relaitionship withou feeling that they are lessening its importance.

Name the five stages of Kublers's grier/dying process (can be in any order)

Kubler stage. Acts as though nothing has happened and refuses to accept the fact of the loss; show no understanding of what has occurred.

Kubler stage. Person expresses resistance and sometimes feels intense anger at God, other people, or the situation

Cushions and postpones awareness of the loss by trying to prevent it from happening

When a person realizes the full impact of the loss; some feel overwhelmingly sad, hopeless and lonely. sometimes withdraw from relationships and life.

the person incorporates the oss into the life and finds ways to move forward

the preventin, relief, reduction, or soothing symptoms of disease or disorders throughout the entire course of an illness, including care of the dying

A final phase of palliative care. Designed for clients who no longer benefit from medical treatments, who are not likely to live more than 6 months, or who are actively dying

prefer having a member of the hct clean and prepare the deceased body. Short mourning with memorial service and a public viewing of the body. organ donation and autopsy allowable

Family usually stays with the deceased for up to 8 hours after death. oldest son or daughter bathes the body under direction from older relative or temple priest. organ donation and autopsy uncommon.

Central focus is on extended family at time of death. family members may help with care of the body and are likely to want time with the body. Organ donation/autopsy not common

cleansing the body and painting the disceased's face, dressing in clothing and attaching an eagle feather to symbolize a return home. Mourners also have cleansing of their bodies and burial is in their homeland

Body is washed, wrapped, cried over, prayed for, and buried. people of not the same faith should not touch the body. deceased faces meca and it is forbidden to cremate the body. modesty is important so use same sex caregiver. no autopsies

Recommended not touching the body after death to give deceased smoother transition to the afterlife. Individuals minimize emotion and maintain a peaceful atmosphere.

buirial usual occurs within 24 hours but not on the Sabbath. grief is expressed openly. no prep of the body until it is known whether members from the jewish Burial society are coming. family may stay with the body until burial

a part of life, eventually replaced by something different or better

form of necessary loss and includes all normally expected life changes across the life span. Helps people develop coping skills

A mother feels loss when her child leaves home for the first day of school. What kind of loss is she experiencing

seemingly unnecessary and not part of expected maturation experiences usually caused by sudden, unpredictable external events

A person dying in an automobile accident is what kind of loss

When a person can no longer feel, hear, or know a person or object.

the loss of a body part, death of a fam member, or loss of a job is what kind of loss

uniquely defined by the person experiencing the loss and less obvious to other people

Most common reaction to death. Is uncomplicated. This type of grief has a known cause and can help the person.to mature and develop coping methods to deal with future losses.

Dsyfunctional grief and person has a hard time moving forward after a loss. Will have trouble accepting death.

unconscious process of "letting go" before the actual loss or death occurs, esp in situatios of prolonged or predicted loss. Often feel relief when the person finally dies

AKA, marginal or unsupported grief.
Occurs when a relationship to a deceased person
is not socially sanctioned and cannot be openly acknowledged or publicly shared

loss of a pet, gay partner, or ex spouse are examples of what kind of grief