acom 100

creates relationships, causes atmosphere, manages identitiy.

is when someone leaves a message for you

sending and reply of a message

• if the message leads to more than the recieveing of aliteral message
• for examplle- if the message makes you fall in love or hate someone.

a object or idea whos meaning is more comlicated than it looks

permit a communicator to go beyond one item to another

can differ based on situation

the facts conveyed when communicating

your take on the facts

the definition of scenario based on a agreement or social normor previous conversation

• for example---when a profesor speaks to a student
• look at in book

for example this will be on the test= take especilally good notes so that you can study this and do wel on this exam

• succesful communication
• mis communication
• accidental communication
• attempted communication

people communication involves sharing viewpoint vocab and meaning or it would not be possible for people to communicate as interacts or transaction

formal gramatical structure of language

is how peope actuallt use language

words gestures symbols, and whether the conversation is formal or imformal have their meanig alteres based on occasion or circumstance.

cues such as"lets not be so formal " control this

verbal distinctions also make visual distinctions.

the words make the world

for example eskimos have several different discriptions of snow that indicate the visualization of many different types of snow.

• the identification of something by pointing it out
• for example if you say cat a perosn thinks of fluffy four legged creature.

• refers to the overtone, implications or additional meaning associated with a word or object.
• for example cats are known to be lucky and have 9 lives
• although the issue arrises with inside jokes

a persons intentions when communicating

• powerful positive terms
• like liberty

• powerful negative terms
• for example osama bin ladin

• reveals a specific goal that you have in mind for a relationship. only done by talking
• for example - be my valentine or go on a date with me

• demonstrates or indicates the nature of the relationship between speakers
• for example - "come into my office i need to speak to you" indicates that a person has authority over you

to make relationship real by using phraases like see you later to say that the relationship will last longer than that

using names like honey or pal to refer to someon established relationship.

the need to be seen and acceptes as a worthwild person

desire not to be treated inferior

informal way of speaking

formal way of speakingq

changing the way you speak to make a relational connetion

when you try to speak like the reciver in order to build a relationship

one speaks unlike the reciever to make a point

forms of communicatin that gives justification

reading other people body communication

when people read your body mottion

• nvvc that can not be changed
• for example eye color

nvc that can be controled

eye contact is cool in america not anywhere else if the person is in a nother place eye contact is seen as a sign or superiority or disrespect

hugginh is prefered by some and not by others

nerver completely sure what a persons nvc is unless its in context

when your nvc shows how you truly feel without you doing it on purpose.

• how verbal and nvc work to gether:
• ex wave and say hello
• although is misconstrude when being sarcastic

• non verbal actions that indicate to others how you want them to act
• Ex. students closing their books a t the end of class is to indicate to the profesor to shut the fuck up and release class

• sighting recognition
• distant salutation
• lower you head and avert your gaze to prevent staring
• close salutation
• backing off

• attitude towards someone
• atitude towards the situation
• ottitude about onesself

the study of space and distance in communication between reciever and sender

establishing space thats central to your life that is not your own

• space open to everyone but you available for your accupance
• likea park bench

imaginary aura around a person that is considered to close to them

movement that takes placce durring a interaction

• signals something that you would saay in words
• like the gesture to drink up

position of body durring a convo

voice tone are sound how something is said

• indications to take turn speaking
• ex. roger that

• time location of interaction
• includes the amount of time in betweeen truns

study of touch in non verbal communication

• afirming
• blending consitency
• diretoy
• emotional clearity

• attending
• bonding
• coordinating
• encouragin

• a primary association that a ward has for a given linguistic ammunity
• basically the meaning of the word that is widley excepted by all.

• a secondary association that a word has for subsets for a given community
• differ with diferent grouops
• there is more debate on the interpitation

• to do/not do things that can threaten someone eles face
• ex. you wouldnt make fun of a handicap person

• something you do to eknowledge and support someones face
• ex. say hello

the desire with in us for outonomy and independence--- to do what we want

the desire to connect with others

we establish who we are to ourselves through

relates to how you think about things how you think about the world

• revelation of private or personal info that other people wouldnt know unless you told them
• has something to do with your relationship with that person

conflict that a couple has to manage over how to resolve aspets of their relationship that are pulling them into two different directionsds

see internal and external dialect

• connectedness v.s seperatedness
• certanty v.s uncertanty
• openess v.s closedness

• inclusion v.s seclusion
• conventional vs uniqeness
• revelation vs concealment

• we present ourselves in a specific way
• ex. you walk in a nd present yourself as tired

clearly categorizing yourself as a certain person

asigning a individual to a category

confirmation to the categoery you have been asigned to

your not prepared to interact with the person on the level they want to interact with you

• it produces a response that refue the thought of interaction. a refusal to aknowledge whats being said
• ex. did you see the game....i like turtles

movement to gain control of a communication exchange

• yielding control of a conversation
• ex. you speak

the back and forward of control of a conversation

• fear
• sadness
• suprised
• disgusted
• anger
• happiness

• body behavior based on gender
• ex. magazine and women

• teisted up posture that is not ideal for protecting ones self
• used by women because they are protrayed as week

• directive - an attempt to get the spaker to perform some action
• assertion- an attempt represent some state of afairs (predicting/informing)
• commisive- an attempt to commit the speaker to some future course of action (promising)
• expressive - the speaker is expresssing somesort os psychological state(apoligizing)
• declarative- an attempt to bring about a change in some institutional state of affairs; create one that did not previously exist. ex. finalizing mariage vows.