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Affirmations: Ask Yourself the Right Questions. Some people repeat
affirmations such as "I am self confident," which is fine, but you can
improve your affirmation results by using leading questions such as,
"why am I so confident?" The subconscious mind operates in a very
simple manner. When you ask it a question like this, it will
immediately go to work looking for the answer, and it will report back
to you all of the ways you already are confident.
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Focus Your Attention Outward. Lack of confidence often causes people to
focus an inordinate amount of attention inward, on the "self." Make it a
point to focus more attention on others than you do on yourself.
Remember, confident people focus outward -- insecure people focus
inward.
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Be a Giver. There is an old proverb that says "you only get what you
give." With that in mind, start giving what you want to receive in
life. Make other people feel as confident and worthwhile as you can.
By helping to build up confident feelings in others, you are sure to get
back the same thing. Call it karma or what ever you like -- it always
works.
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Affirmations: Ask Yourself the Right Questions. Some people repeat
affirmations such as "I am self confident," which is fine, but you can
improve your affirmation results by using leading questions such as,
"why am I so confident?" The subconscious mind operates in a very
simple manner. When you ask it a question like this, it will
immediately go to work looking for the answer, and it will report back
to you all of the ways you already are confident.
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"Model" Other Confident People. One way to improve self-confidence is
to model the behavior of people whom you consider to be supremely
confident. If you can befriend a very confident person, that's great.
But if not, just find an actor or other celebrity who is confidence
personified, and study their behavior. Do this several times a week,
and some of their confident mannerisms are bound to rub off on you.
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Confident = Hands
Relaxed, at the sides, on table, etc.
Insecure = Constantly touching something or himself
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Talks About people they are around rather than themselves.
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Sitting down with the hands and arms clasped behind the head This
is a superior gesture or exhibits extreme confidence sometimes
bordering on arrogance. It can also be accompanied by the chin held
high.
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Leg lock – when one ankle is crossed over the knee of the otherThis
denotes a dominant and competitive personality. The higher the leg is
crossed over the more dominant and competitive. If the person is also
holding his leg this means he is stubborn and unmoving, he’s made his
mind up.
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If the thumbs are on display in an upward position this
shows that they are in charge! This is often a familiar stance of a
barrister in a courtroom. Some speakers also adopt this posture, which
can be rather intimidating towards the audience.
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Stand by what you say As soon as you make a declaration,
internally resolve to stand by it. In other words, when the period
appears at the end of your statement, cut yourself off from making any
additions, amendments, corrections, or qualifying conditions.
Self-assured people project confidence when their statements are said
with conviction.
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Greatness is not this esoteri, elusive, god-like feature that only the special among us can taste...I know who i am and i know what i believe and im willing to die for it.
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Talent - is natural
Skill - is developed
Sick ridiculous work ethic
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The David you are sculpting is You and you do so with your thoughts.
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