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Produce words or do nothing.
Or do the thing or do nothing.
The other idea I loved was Neil Gaiman’s one writing rule for himself. When he is at his writing desk, he allows himself to do one of two things: write, or do nothing.
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Know the distinction Freedom from, freedom to
https://youtu.be/DXg-qwFzedg?si=ZHwaa54MArHO3tiT
In this video, Conor Neill delves into the themes of freedom, choice, and confidence, drawing on insights from Dan Sullivan and his own experiences:
- • Freedom Types: Neill explains Dan Sullivan’s concepts of “freedom from” and “freedom to.” “Freedom from” involves a desire to escape pain or undesirable situations, while “freedom to” emphasizes a positive pursuit of meaningful goals, focusing on growth and purpose rather than avoidance.
- • Fear vs. Confidence: A life oriented around “freedom from” often stems from fear and a focus on avoiding discomfort. Conversely, living with “freedom to” aligns with confidence, as it is driven by pursuing meaningful actions and relationships.
- • Choice vs. Decision: Neill highlights a key distinction: decisions are often based on external validations or justifications, while true choices come from within, reflecting one’s authentic self and values. He argues that real commitment and personal responsibility stem from making choices rather than just decisions, which can often be rationalized or re-evaluated based on societal expectations.
- • Personal Anecdotes: Neill shares examples, including a conversation with a senior leader who faced a career-defining choice and opted for a path less prestigious but more aligned with his values. This choice, rather than a decision based on external rewards, ultimately transformed his career and life.
- • Living Without Fear: To live confidently, Neill emphasizes two main shifts: focusing on “freedom to” goals rather than escaping discomfort, and learning to make true choices that reflect personal commitment rather than simply rational decisions.
Neill concludes by encouraging viewers to reflect on these ideas and engage with him through comments, aiming to help others clarify and understand the importance of purposeful, confident living.
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The easiest thing you’re going to do today is cut bread
- The easiest thing you’re going to do today is hug your children when they wake up annoyingly early.
- The easiest thing you’re going to do today is do that monthly report
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