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Listening
As the process of making sense of others' messages.
Occurs when the brain reconstructs these electrochemical impulses into a representation of the original sound and then gives them meaning.
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Hearing
Is the process in which sound waves strike the eardrum and cause vibrations that are transmitted to the brain
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Mindless Listening
occurs when we react to others' messages automatically and routinely, without much mental investment.
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Mindful Listening
involves giving careful and thoughtful attention and responses to the messages we receive.
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Attending
Needs, wants, desires, and interests determine what is attended to.
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Understanding
Occurs when we make sense of a message
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Listening Fidelity
to describe the degree of congruence between what a listener understands and what the message sender was attempting to communicate.
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Responding
Giving observable feedback to the speaker
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Remembering
Is the ability to recall information
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Pseudolistening
Give the appearance of being attentive.
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Stage-Hogging
try to turn the topic of conversations to themselves instead of showing interest in the speaker.
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Selective Listening
Selective listeners respond only to the parts of your remarks that interest them, rejecting everything else.
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Insulated Listening
Whenever a topic arises that they'd rather not deal with.
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Defensive Listening
Defensive listeners take others' remarks as personal attacks.
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Ambushing
Ambushers listen carefully to you, but only because they're collecting information that they'll use to attack what you say.
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Insensitive Listening
Respond to the superficial content in a message but miss the more important emotional information that may not be expressed directly.
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Prompting
Involves using silences and brief statements of encouragement to draw others out.
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Questioning
Asking for information can help both the person doing the asking and the one providing answers. Aimed at understanding others.
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Counterfeit Questions
Aimed at sending a message, not receiving one.
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Paraphrasing
Statements that reword the listener's interpretation of a message
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Supporting
Reveals a listener's solidarity with the speaker's situation.
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Analyzing
the listener offers an interpretation of a speaker's message.
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Advising
To help by offering a solution
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Judging
Evaluates the sender's thoughts or behaviors in some way.
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