Character Defects

I slide into self pity quickly after an error.

I fantasize and day dream.

I expect people to be nice and polite to me because I am.

I have high expectations of myself and expect others to live up to those standards.

I don't humbly take someone looking up to me.

I think I'm right most of the time.

I don't like to repeat myself.

I get irritated when the answer I give is argued.

I'm a sore loser but don't outwardly show it.

I deny myself the help of friends.

I don't like when someone doesn't take my word for it. I feel like I should defend what I say.

I don't like to take what's bothering me to anyone else.

I get nervous/angry when I'm wrong and try to cover it up or act like I knew it already.

I don't like to walk away if I think my point has not been fully made or if I haven't convinced them.

I jump into a conversation without knowing the whole story.

I get preachy.

I stick my nose in where it doesn't belong and try to solve problems or inform.

I try to "help" or "advise" people when they don't ask me to.

I point lout to others my perceived flaws in the world and harp on it.

I fantasize about justice or retribution.

I help someone with something, but then keep elaborating until I piss them off.

I'm a "know it all!"

I speak before I think.

I try to "correct" the behaviors of others.

I start to dictate when I intend to inform or teach.

I belittle people who beleive things I don't agree with.

I don't feel like there are other people like me or "on my level."

I shout orders when stressed instead of asking politely.

I don't keep in touch regularly with my family.

I don't keep in touch regularly with my friends.

I have trouble focusing on people when they are talking. My mind wanders or I'm trying to figure out what I'm gonna say next.

I don't know when to shut up.

I'm self righteous.

I get caught up in what I'm trying to do and leave God out.

I have trouble staying in the moment. I get distracted by my ego.

I dlon't appreciate the friendships I do have.

I'm overly focused on my appearance. Vanity.

I'm vain.

I think mostly about me and how things are affecting me.

I have trouble clearly seeing and remembering my strengths and weaknesses.

I think I'm funny so I talk too much about nothing.

I brag.

I pick on people. I act like its funny but its actually a way to discredit them.

I redirect anger and frustration towards people, things, and events, that have nothing to do with it, instead of dealing with the issue.

I can be flat out mean and snide with people I don't respect.

I home in on one person I have a tiny resentment towards and pick them apart.

I lash lout when my pride is wounded.

I perceive enemies in the people around me.

I think I know how others think and feel.

When i feel guilty about something, I believe others are angry with me.

I have imagined arguments with people when I think they don't agree with what I'm doing.

I tell myself "I have to...","I've got to...","I need to...".

I'm very hard on myself.

I shame myself when I have negative feelings.

I "shoulda woulda coulda".

I get the "fuck-its."

I can be quite guilt driven. I feel guilty about things that are not necessary.

I'm indecisive and frequently change my mind.

I desire the clothes and things I didn't have as a kid.

I forget to be grateful and take things for granted.

I regret and dwell on not getting to do something I wanted to.

I'm jealous.

I'm bad with $$$.

I regret and dwell on not getting something I wanted.

I become obsessive about little things like collecting shiny or blue things.

I don't appreciate what I have and want more.

I steal and justify by saying it's nothing large and won't be missed.

I desire authority positions and want to be "in charge."

I'm inwardly jealous of people who succeed before me.

I chose the people I allow around me based on similarities instead of character.

I let people slip to the wayside and damage my network. "Out of sight, out of mind."

I justify my half measures.

I have trouble saying "NO" to myself.

I have trouble staying in the moment.

I love the ritual, smell, and taste of pot.

I have trouble stepping back and relaxing.

I go to bed angry or with a mind full of regret.

I can't delay gratification.

i dwell on conflicts or disappointments.

I let anxiety keep me from moving forward.

I have trouble making the decision to be happy. I remain angry, sad, or stressed.

I don't smile (even though it'll help) when I think I'm stressed.

I procrastinate, even though I know I'll enjoy the task once I start it.

I ask until i get the answer I want.

I gossip and rally to get others to see someone or something the same way that I do.

I manipulate situations to my advantage.

I use guilt rips to manipulate people.

I use "this fucked up world" as justification for my behavior and to allow for resentments.

I only remain teachable for short periods of time.

I procrastinate when I just don't want to.

I have trouble being nice to a person I have a problem with.

I'm reluctant to help others when I'm "not in the mood."

I'm immature.

I don't practice the principles very well and only notice in retrospect.

I spend time organizing and planning and then fail to implement the schedule.

I'm lazy when no one's looking.

I overfill my "plate."

I lose or misplace things.

I don't stick to my resolutions.

I don't allow myself enough time to sleep.

I'm falsely modest.

I justify my defects to avoid guilt or allow for selfishness.

I say "I know" when someone is telling me something, even if it was something I didn't know.

I tell other peoples stories like they were my own.

I hide my feelings with "Yeah, I'm alright." or "Doesn't bother me."

I hide my mental illness form others.

I minimize fuck-ups when recounting them and embellish success or achievements.

I portray myself as above common defects.

I make my life seem more grandiose than it is.

I don't practice what I preach.

I don't come clean if no lone has caught me.

I lie about my past to look greater.

I seek justice or retribution.

I break rules when I think they are minor and I can get away with them.

I justify my actions and behavior.

I rebel against rules, or flat lout ignore them if they get in my way.

I get sullen defensive and discount others when challenged.

I get pissed when someone calls me on my bullshit.

I hold a resentment against one person and go off on another person or thing.

I'm passive aggressive. Pretending like I let something go, then stewing on it before exploding later.

I tend to not like somebody due to only one part of their personality.

I notice the negative aspects of people before noticing the positive.

I have trouble accepting the situation I'm in.

I'm extremely self conscious around women.

I feel isolated around family.

I feel sad about not being in a relationship.

I shy away from starngers out of nervous fear of judgement.

I get attached easily to male superiors. I emulate them. Even their bad aspects.

I often feel lonely or left out; like no one wants me to be part of their group.

I feel bullied often.

I let what others think of me affect my behavior or hurt me.

I feel guilt, even if I know I'm doing something right, if someone else doesn't like it.

I'm fake when talking to women. Bravado

I get jealous when someone makes a move on a woman I'm attracted to.

I goof off and make jokes to attract attention to myself.

I seek pity and attention from others when depressed.

I overcompensate.

I don't like admitting my defects.

I isolate and get quiet.

I have trouble seeing who my friends are.

I'm afraid of losing my commitment or dedication.

I get angry when I think I'm being treated like a child.

I'm a people pleaser.

I weigh all my actions against the way I believe others will perceive them.

I tend to believe I'll fail before I believe I'll succeed.

I fall into infatuation and the into obsession.

I stare at women because I like the way it feels but I'm ashamed to do it.

I expect sex and even beg for it in a relationship.

I objectify women.

I'm motivated by sex rather than friendship in a relationship.

I lust and escape from life with sexual fantasies.