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Self Pity
I slide into self pity quickly after an error.
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Unrealistic
I fantasize and day dream.
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Unrealistic
I expect people to be nice and polite to me because I am.
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Unrealistic
I have high expectations of myself and expect others to live up to those standards.
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Unrealistic
I don't humbly take someone looking up to me.
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Unrealistic
I think I'm right most of the time.
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Pride
I don't like to repeat myself.
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Pride
I get irritated when the answer I give is argued.
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Pride
I'm a sore loser but don't outwardly show it.
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Pride
I deny myself the help of friends.
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Pride
I don't like when someone doesn't take my word for it. I feel like I should defend what I say.
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Pride
I don't like to take what's bothering me to anyone else.
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Pride
I get nervous/angry when I'm wrong and try to cover it up or act like I knew it already.
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Pride
I don't like to walk away if I think my point has not been fully made or if I haven't convinced them.
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Know-It-All
I jump into a conversation without knowing the whole story.
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Know-It-All
I get preachy.
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Know-It-All
I stick my nose in where it doesn't belong and try to solve problems or inform.
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Know-It-All
I try to "help" or "advise" people when they don't ask me to.
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Know-It-All
I point lout to others my perceived flaws in the world and harp on it.
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Know-It-All
I fantasize about justice or retribution.
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Know-It-All
I help someone with something, but then keep elaborating until I piss them off.
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Know-It-All
I'm a "know it all!"
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Know-It-All
I speak before I think.
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Know-It-All
I try to "correct" the behaviors of others.
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Know-It-All
I start to dictate when I intend to inform or teach.
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Know-It-All
I belittle people who beleive things I don't agree with.
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Know-It-All
I don't feel like there are other people like me or "on my level."
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Inconsiderate
I shout orders when stressed instead of asking politely.
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Inconsiderate
I don't keep in touch regularly with my family.
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Inconsiderate
I don't keep in touch regularly with my friends.
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Inconsiderate
I have trouble focusing on people when they are talking. My mind wanders or I'm trying to figure out what I'm gonna say next.
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Inconsiderate
I don't know when to shut up.
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Full of Myself
I'm self righteous.
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Full of Myself
I get caught up in what I'm trying to do and leave God out.
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Full of Myself
I have trouble staying in the moment. I get distracted by my ego.
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Full of Myself
I dlon't appreciate the friendships I do have.
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Full of Myself
I'm overly focused on my appearance. Vanity.
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Full of Myself
I think mostly about me and how things are affecting me.
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Full of Myself
I have trouble clearly seeing and remembering my strengths and weaknesses.
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Full of Myself
I think I'm funny so I talk too much about nothing.
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Hateful
I pick on people. I act like its funny but its actually a way to discredit them.
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Hateful
I redirect anger and frustration towards people, things, and events, that have nothing to do with it, instead of dealing with the issue.
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Hateful
I can be flat out mean and snide with people I don't respect.
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Hateful
I home in on one person I have a tiny resentment towards and pick them apart.
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Hateful
I lash lout when my pride is wounded.
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Omnipotence
I perceive enemies in the people around me.
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Omnipotence
I think I know how others think and feel.
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Omnipotence
When i feel guilty about something, I believe others are angry with me.
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Omnipotence
I have imagined arguments with people when I think they don't agree with what I'm doing.
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Perfection
I tell myself "I have to...","I've got to...","I need to...".
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Perfection
I'm very hard on myself.
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Perfection
I shame myself when I have negative feelings.
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Perfection
I "shoulda woulda coulda".
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Perfection
I get the "fuck-its."
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Perfection
I can be quite guilt driven. I feel guilty about things that are not necessary.
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Perfection
I'm indecisive and frequently change my mind.
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Greedy
I desire the clothes and things I didn't have as a kid.
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Greedy
I forget to be grateful and take things for granted.
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Greedy
I regret and dwell on not getting to do something I wanted to.
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Greedy
I regret and dwell on not getting something I wanted.
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Greedy
I become obsessive about little things like collecting shiny or blue things.
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Greedy
I don't appreciate what I have and want more.
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Greedy
I steal and justify by saying it's nothing large and won't be missed.
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Greedy
I desire authority positions and want to be "in charge."
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Greedy
I'm inwardly jealous of people who succeed before me.
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Bad Judgement
I chose the people I allow around me based on similarities instead of character.
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Bad Judgement
I let people slip to the wayside and damage my network. "Out of sight, out of mind."
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Bad Judgement
I justify my half measures.
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Bad Judgement
I have trouble saying "NO" to myself.
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Bad Judgement
I have trouble staying in the moment.
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Bad Judgement
I love the ritual, smell, and taste of pot.
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Bad Judgement
I have trouble stepping back and relaxing.
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Bad Judgement
I go to bed angry or with a mind full of regret.
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Bad Judgement
I can't delay gratification.
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Bad Judgement
i dwell on conflicts or disappointments.
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Bad Judgement
I let anxiety keep me from moving forward.
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Bad Judgement
I have trouble making the decision to be happy. I remain angry, sad, or stressed.
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Bad Judgement
I don't smile (even though it'll help) when I think I'm stressed.
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Bad Judgement
I procrastinate, even though I know I'll enjoy the task once I start it.
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Manipulative
I ask until i get the answer I want.
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Manipulative
I gossip and rally to get others to see someone or something the same way that I do.
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Manipulative
I manipulate situations to my advantage.
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Manipulative
I use guilt rips to manipulate people.
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Manipulative
I use "this fucked up world" as justification for my behavior and to allow for resentments.
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Unwilling/Lazy
I only remain teachable for short periods of time.
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Unwilling/Lazy
I procrastinate when I just don't want to.
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Unwilling/Lazy
I have trouble being nice to a person I have a problem with.
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Unwilling/Lazy
I'm reluctant to help others when I'm "not in the mood."
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Unwilling/Lazy
I'm immature.
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Unwilling/Lazy
I don't practice the principles very well and only notice in retrospect.
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Unwilling/Lazy
I spend time organizing and planning and then fail to implement the schedule.
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Unwilling/Lazy
I'm lazy when no one's looking.
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Irresponsible
I overfill my "plate."
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Irresponsible
I lose or misplace things.
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Irresponsible
I don't stick to my resolutions.
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Irresponsible
I don't allow myself enough time to sleep.
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Dishonest
I'm falsely modest.
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Dishonest
I justify my defects to avoid guilt or allow for selfishness.
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Dishonest
I say "I know" when someone is telling me something, even if it was something I didn't know.
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Dishonest
I tell other peoples stories like they were my own.
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Dishonest
I hide my feelings with "Yeah, I'm alright." or "Doesn't bother me."
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Dishonest
I hide my mental illness form others.
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Dishonest
I minimize fuck-ups when recounting them and embellish success or achievements.
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Dishonest
I portray myself as above common defects.
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Dishonest
I make my life seem more grandiose than it is.
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Dishonest
I don't practice what I preach.
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Dishonest
I don't come clean if no lone has caught me.
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Dishonest
I lie about my past to look greater.
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Self Righteous
I seek justice or retribution.
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Self Righteous
I break rules when I think they are minor and I can get away with them.
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Self Righteous
I justify my actions and behavior.
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Self Righteous
I rebel against rules, or flat lout ignore them if they get in my way.
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Self Righteous
I get sullen defensive and discount others when challenged.
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Self Righteous
I get pissed when someone calls me on my bullshit.
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Intollerant
I hold a resentment against one person and go off on another person or thing.
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Intollerant
I'm passive aggressive. Pretending like I let something go, then stewing on it before exploding later.
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Intollerant
I tend to not like somebody due to only one part of their personality.
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Intollerant
I notice the negative aspects of people before noticing the positive.
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Intollerant
I have trouble accepting the situation I'm in.
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Insecure
I'm extremely self conscious around women.
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Insecure
I feel isolated around family.
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Insecure
I feel sad about not being in a relationship.
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Insecure
I shy away from starngers out of nervous fear of judgement.
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Insecure
I get attached easily to male superiors. I emulate them. Even their bad aspects.
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Insecure
I often feel lonely or left out; like no one wants me to be part of their group.
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Insecure
I feel bullied often.
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Insecure
I let what others think of me affect my behavior or hurt me.
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Insecure
I feel guilt, even if I know I'm doing something right, if someone else doesn't like it.
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Insecure
I'm fake when talking to women. Bravado
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Insecure
I get jealous when someone makes a move on a woman I'm attracted to.
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Insecure
I goof off and make jokes to attract attention to myself.
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Insecure
I seek pity and attention from others when depressed.
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Insecure
I overcompensate.
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Insecure
I don't like admitting my defects.
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Insecure
I isolate and get quiet.
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Insecure
I have trouble seeing who my friends are.
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Insecure
I'm afraid of losing my commitment or dedication.
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Insecure
I get angry when I think I'm being treated like a child.
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Insecure
I'm a people pleaser.
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Insecure
I weigh all my actions against the way I believe others will perceive them.
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Insecure
I tend to believe I'll fail before I believe I'll succeed.
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Lust
I fall into infatuation and the into obsession.
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Lust
I stare at women because I like the way it feels but I'm ashamed to do it.
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Lust
I expect sex and even beg for it in a relationship.
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Lust
I'm motivated by sex rather than friendship in a relationship.
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Lust
I lust and escape from life with sexual fantasies.
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