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notification of death call (first call)
To request, usually made by a surviving family member, for a funeral home to transfer a deceased from the place of death to the funeral home & for the funeral home to carry out the wishes of the next of kin regarding funeral services & disposition.
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How do you make 98% of initial contacts
are made by telephone; the remainder are made in person.
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tone of voice
be sympathetic yet professional, not overly sad, forlorn, or cheerful. It should have some inflection to avoid sounding monotone or bored.
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tone of voice
use of telephone:
- 1. answering
- 2. voice
- 3. diction
- 4. pronunciation
- 5. volume
- 6. closing
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answering
- when answering the phone give the name of the funeral home & the name of the person answering the phone.
- avoid good morning/evening-people may find offensive
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voice
- Quality & tone:
- 1. it should not be overly cheerful
- 2. it should not be sad or forlorn (depressed)
- 3. it should have some inflection to avoid sounding monotone or boring
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diction
- 1. your words should be clear & crisp
- 2. the telephone should not be answered by a person who has food, gum or objects in his/her mouth
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pronunciation
care should be taken to pronounce words correctly
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volume
- the voice should not be loud
- the voice should not be so quite or soft that the caller has to strain to hear you
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closing
- 1. give the caller the approximate time you will arrive at the place of transfer.
- * do not say we will be right there
- * give the time of arrival in min. or clock time (no slang)
- 2. assure the caller of the continued assistance of the funeral home by inviting them to call back if they have questions or needs
- 3. permit the caller to close the conversation
- 4. avoid saying thank you maybe offensive
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information to be obtained during the notification of death:
- obtain only those items of information necessary in making the transfer of remains
- (not all of the following will be necessary);
- 1. name of the deceased
- 2. location of the deceased
- 3. name & information of next of kin
- 4. name, number & relationship/authority of person calling-if not NOK (next of kin)
- 5. name of attending physician
- 6. has physician/ME/Coroner/JP been notified
- 7. the age of the deceased
- 8. method of disposition
- 9. permission to embalm
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following additional information may be neccessary if the transfer of remains is from a hospital, nursing home, or other institituion:
- 1. name, address, and telephone number of the person's authorizing release to the funeral home
- 2. name, address and telephone number of the spouse or next of kin
- 3. time of release
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it isn't unusual for a represenative of the family, such as a
friend, relative, nurse, doctor, clergy, or lawyer to notify the funeral home of a death on behalf of the family.
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when a family member is responsible for making the arrangements
it is important to get the name, address, phone number & relationship
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When the first call is from another funeral director:
- it is evident in these instances that you are dealing with a representative of the family or another funeral director. You need to obtain certain information:
- Name of deceased
- location of the deceased
- name; telephone number, relationship, & authority of the person calling.
- name & phone number of next of kin
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Additional information needed from a tranfer to another funeral home:
- will body be embalmed?
- what are transportation arrangements for the deceased?
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record of notification of death:
- all information should be written down accurately (use of printed form is suggested) a copy of the information should be left at the funeral home.
- "Are there any heads up?"
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transfer/removal of remains definition;
the transfer of the deceased from the place of death to the funeral home.
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transfer/removal of remains:
- 1. transfer vehicle
- 2. at least 2 staff persons (weight deciding factor)
- 3. transfer vehicle equipment & accessories
- 4. specific equipment for infant transfer
- 5. personal appearance of transfer personnel
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transfer vehicle equipment & accessories
- * sheets/cot cover
- * pillow/ headblock
- * rubber or plastic sheeting
- * towels
- * zipper bag/dispatch pouch
- * straps* protective clothing
- * sanitary items
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specific equipment for infant transfer:
- 1. blanket (baby)
- 2. basanet or infant carrier
- 3. small rubber or plastic sheet (if messy)
- * can hold baby for last hold
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a crucial impression of a funeral home & of funeral service
than the removal, whether responding to a hospital, home or accident scene, the manner & style of transporting a deceased person away from the place of death conveys that crucail impression.
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Home removal:
- a reversion to practice of the early 20th century
- hospice movement has resulted in more persons dying at home
- when making a home removal, one funeral director should first go to the door without the cot.
- they should introduce themselves & ask to be taken to where the deceased is located.
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while walking the room, the director should be observing:
- 1. stairways
- 2. size of hallways
- 3. number of turns
- 4. rugs
- 5.objects or furniture to be moved
- 6. doorways
- 7. position, condition & size of deceased
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After the director has seen the deceased, they should
- advise the family that the cot will be brought in & they may ask any person who is in the way to move to another room
- if there are objections the funeral director should let them stay
- any furniture should be moved
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permission to embalm (P.T.E)the deceased and the arrangement conference information such as:
- 1. social security
- 2. veterans discharge
- 3. cementary deed
- 4. insurance forms
- 5. vital statistics (info. death certificate) 10 day filled
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transfer procedures:
- 1. transfer must be paid promptly
- 2. transfer vehicles must be driven responsibly
- 3. arrival at the place of death; one staff member should ascertain that they are in the correct location while the other staff member stays with the vehicle.
- 4. one member checks location while other stays in vehicle
- 5. staff member introduces themselves & the assistant & determins the equipment needed
- 6. determin what furniture must be moved
- 7. advise family of what's going to happen
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transfer of the deceased:
- 1. protective gear
- 2. check for dentures & valuables
- 3. rap body in plastic if needed (do not wrap head)
- 4. place body in bag if needed
- 5. place body on cot
- 6. immediately take cot to the transfer vehicle (advise the family that you are taking their loved one to your vehicle--sometimes the family wants to see the deceased one last time.
- 7. return anything moved
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counsel the family (if present) regarding:
- 1. permission to embalm (P.T.E.)
- 2. name of clergy
- 3. arrangement conference time
- 4. prepare the family for the various decisions to be made at the conference
- 5. identify items of information needed at the time of the conference
- 6. Social Security or veterans information
- 7. death certificate information
- 8. clothing (nothing low cut, a larger size) jewlery, photographs
- 9. insurance info.
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items usually included in the arrangement conference:
- 1. general price list (G.P.L)
- 2. set the following in consultation with the officiant
- 1. time of service
- 2. date of service
- 3.location of service
- 3. casket
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To remove a body from the grave is called?
disinter or exhume
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What's the name of the machine used to cremate remains?
Retort
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Aims & Objectives of Funeral Service
- 1. Leadership ability in professional, civic & community affairs
- 2. Good moral charachter & integrity
- 3. Adherence to high ethical standards
- 4. Interest in continuing Education Process
- 5. Respect for profession
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Foundations of Funeral Service
- 1. Religious
- 2. philosophical
- 3. psychological
- 4. sociological
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Sexton Defined
"keeper of the cemetary" people who deal with the burials, assigning graves, opening & closing
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Undertaker Defined
"undertook to cure for the dead" orginiated during 18th century; furnished merchandise
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Influencing Factors of Funeral Service
- Psychological
- religious
- fraternal
- social
- economic
- racial
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Funeral Service Organizations
- NFDA (National Funeral Director Association)
- NFDMA (National Funeral Director Mortician Association)
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NFDA
- (National Funeral Director Association)
- founded in 1882; principle interest group for all funeral service personnel; largest funeral service organization in the US that is non-profit, nonpartisan & has a wide range of benefits for it's memebers.
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NFDMA
- (National Funeral Director Mortician Association)
- the African American organization which was established in 1924 & headquartered in Brooklyn, NY
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