Val's Favorite Questions.txt

  1. What?s next?
  2. What do you want?
  3. What are you afraid of?
  4. What is this costing you?
  5. What are you attached to?
  6. What is the dream?
  7. What is the essence of the dream?
  8. What is beyond this problem?
  9. What is ahead?
  10. What are you building towards?
  11. What has to happen for you to feel successful?
  12. What gift are you not being responsible for?
  13. What are your healthy sources of energy?
  14. What stops you?
  15. What's stopping you?
  16. What?s in your way?
  17. What would make the biggest difference here?
  18. What are you going to do?
  19. What do you like to do?
  20. What can you do to be happy right now?
  21. What do you hope to accomplish by having that conversation?
  22. What do you hope to accomplish by doing that?
  23. What's the first step?
  24. What would it be like to have excitement and fear at the same time?
  25. What's important about that?
  26. What would it take for you to treat yourself like your best client?
  27. What benefit/payoff is there in the present situation?
  28. What do you expect to have happen?
  29. What's the ideal?
  30. What's the ideal outcome?
  31. What would it look like?
  32. What's the truth about this situation?
  33. What's the right action?
  34. What are you going to do?
  35. What's working for you?
  36. What would you do differently?
  37. What decision would you make from a place of abundance?
  38. What other choices do you have?
  39. What do you really, really want?
  40. What if there were no limits?
  41. What aren't you telling me that's keeping me from coaching/helping you?
  42. What haven't I asked that I should ask?
  43. What needs to be said that has not been said?
  44. What are you not saying?
  45. What else do you have to say about that?
  46. What is left to do to have this be complete?
  47. What do you have invested in continuing to do it this way?
  48. What is that?
  49. What comes first?
  50. What consequence are you avoiding?
  51. What is the value you received from this meeting/conversation?
  52. What is motivating you?
  53. What has you hooked?
  54. What is missing here?
  55. What does that remind you of?
  56. What do you suggest?
  57. What is underneath that?
  58. What part of what I said was useful? And how so?
  59. What is this person contributing to the quality of your life?
  60. What is it that you are denying yourself right now?
  61. What do you need to put in place to accomplish this?
  62. What is the simplest solution here?
  63. What would help you know I support this/you completely?
  64. What happened?
  65. What are you avoiding?
  66. What is the worst that could happen?
  67. What are you committed to?
  68. What is your vision for yourself and the people around you?
  69. What don't you want?
  70. What if you knew?
  71. What?s your heart telling you? What are you willing to give up?
  72. What might you have done differently?
  73. What are you not facing?
  74. What does this feeling remind you of?
  75. What would you do differently if this problem were solved?
  76. What does your soul say?
  77. What do you need to say goodbye to in order to move forward?
  78. What's the payoff for you of not dealing with this issue?
  79. Are things as bad as you say they are or are they worse?
  80. At what point when you say "yes" are you really feeling "no"?
  81. What is the decision you are avoiding?
  82. What are you pretending not to know?
  83. What are ten things I absolutely need to know about you?
  84. What do you want to be able to say about yourself (your church) three months from now? One year from now? Three years from now?
  85. What is holding you back? What keeps getting in the way?
  86. What is one simple thing you could do today to get you closer to your goal? (Right now! Today!)
  87. What is your biggest wildest dream?
  88. What keeps you up at night? What do you find yourself continually thinking about when you're in the shower?
  89. What has motivated you in the past to reach/achieve difficult goals, make important decisions, or do challenging things? Can we use this as a motivator now?
  90. Who can help you with this?
  91. What are you tolerating?
  92. What has served you in the past? Is it still in effect now?
  93. What would you do if you knew you couldn't fail?
  94. What part of this goal is yours? What belongs to someone else? What if the goal was all yours?
  95. How can I best support you? What do you need most from me?
  96. What are you grateful for?
  97. What makes your heart sing?
  98. What's missing?
  99. What do you have to do differently to make this happen?
  100. What do you need to put in place to make this happen?
  101. When you attain your goal, what will it look like?
  102. Who do you know that is already doing this well?
  103. What will be the signs that it's time to begin?
  104. How will you know that you have succeeded?
  105. How will you know when you arrive?
  106. What about yourself do you need to change?
  107. What is one thing you need to focus on to get where you want to go?
  108. Could you be mistaken? How could you check this out?
  109. Does this align with your vision and goals?
  110. What is one thing you feel really good about over this past week?
  111. What one thing would make the biggest difference right now?
  112. What's your belief about this situation?
  113. What would you like more of? Less of?
  114. What is true about this situation?
  115. What are the affects of this on you?
  116. What steps would move this forward?
  117. How attached are you to the outcome?
  118. What is the "should" in this situation?
  119. Is this the time to begin?
  120. What is the truth about this situation?
  121. What is the path of least resistance?
  122. Is there another way? Let?s brainstorm 5 to 10 other possibilities.
  123. What is this costing you?
  124. Can you see what is beyond this problem?
  125. Can you see what?s ahead?
  126. Are you open to a completely different way of looking at this?
  127. What are your actions saying about this situation?
  128. What will happen if you keep doing this for the next 10 years?
  129. Underneath all of this, what are you really committed to?
  130. What is the legacy that you want to leave behind?
  131. May I push you on this?
  132. So, what's possible here?
  133. What opportunities are you not taking advantage of?
  134. Who's really in charge here?
  135. What are five changes or actions that you can take in the next 30 days that will move you forward?
  136. What are you willing to do to make this work?
  137. What consumes your time, to the point that it distracts you from attaining your goals?
  138. What do you really, really, really, REALLY want?
  139. What are you afraid of about this situation?
  140. What is the worst that could happen? And if that happened, what's the worst that could happen after that?
  141. What is the best that could happen?
  142. What are you NOT saying? What are you holding back?
  143. Are you pursuing a goal that no longer makes sense?
  144. What internal rules and unspoken standards are having a negative impact?
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Val's Favorite Questions.txt
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