competent communicator

effective communicator- you get what you want . ex neighbor and money.

appropiate communicator- if you dont offend anyone. 

learning- your communication skills ex: voice body language, eye contact, speed of talking. skills you learn.

large repotoire of skills-  having alot of good communictions. ex: skype ,emailing, messaging, how to speak clearly.

perform your skills professionally- ex: trying to write the best  message trying your best at communication skills.

adaptability - known when to send an email when you make a phone call appropiate timing ex: dont text a message or email them  about someone passing away instead call them.

involvment- people need to feel  like your involved  in whats happening the conversation.

ampathy- you feel what the other person is feeling their emotions.( you can not fake ampathy) either you feel it or you dont.

cohnitive- comptexity- you can look at the issue from many diff sides /prospectives.

self-monitering- paying attention to once own  behavior. a process  and using observation to adjust once behavior ( looking at your self from the outside when you notice something is not correct.)

high self monitering-   paying attention to how you come across that you forget what you want.

low self monitering- when you dont care enough of your self ex: drunk ppl loud people  who has no perception about them self no concideration