equality

this equality wheel offers a view of a relationship that is based on equality and non-violence.

• non-threatening behavior
• respect
• trust and support
• honesty
• responsible parenting
• share responsibility
• economic partnership
• fairness

talking and acting so that she feels safe and confortable expressing her self and doing things.

listening to her nonjudgmentally. being emotionally understanding. valueing opinions.

supporting her goals in life. respecting her right to her own feeling, friends, activities, and opinions.

accepting responsibility for self. acknowledging past use of violence. admitting being worng. communicationg openly and truthfully.

sharing parental responsibilities. being a positive nonviolent role model for children.

mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work. making family decisions together.

making money decisions together making sure both partners benefit from financial arrangements.

seeking mutually satisfying resolutions to conflict accepting change being willing to compromise.