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define reciprocity
involves liking those who show they like you. look at partner in positive ways and problem solve
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5 keys to making marriage last
- few emotional problems
- avoid premarital pregnancey
- no affairs
- education
- carreer
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define passionate love
complete absorption in another with tender sexual feelings and agony and ecstasy of intense emotion
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define companionate love
warm , trustiong, tolerant affection fro one whose life is deeply intertwined
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def intimacy
warmth, closeness and sharing in a relationship
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what are the 3 attachment styles
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3 affects of secure attachment
- parent-good at knowing when to be supportive and independant. comfortable relationship
- infant-welcomes contact w/parent
- adult=easy to get close to comfortable depending and being depended on
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3 affects of avoidant attachment
- parent=cold and distant, nonresponsive, concerns are elsewhere
- infant-little protest when seperated
- adult-uncomfortable being close, little trust, dont like depending on others
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3 affects of anxious/ambivalent attachment
- parent-inconsistant in reactions
- infant-strong seperation protest
- adult-the desire in relationships pushes people away
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def internal and external attributions
- internal attribute the cause to personal traits and abilities
- external attribute cause to situation and environmental factors
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what is defensive aattribution
tendancey to blame victims for their own misfortune
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what is fundamental attribution error
- blaming someone for their internal attributions
- "coach likes her better than me so i dont get to play"
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factors in changing ones attitude
- persuasion when source has credibility, like expertise and trust
- likeability increases success of persuasion
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