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anger directed at self by self
guilt
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anger thought to be directed at self by others
shame
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blame is anger directed..
outward
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blame directed__ another person is anger
toward
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typical behavior in anger
attach
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anticipation of death or loss
anticipatory grief
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state of tension, rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, and other similar ramifications of arousal of autonomic nervous system
fear something undesirable is going to happen
anxiety
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situation that calls for "at-need counseling"
death has occured, funeral director is counseling with family as they select service and intems of merchandise
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Bowlby known for
attachment theory
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tendency for human beings to make strong affectional bonds with others coming from the need for safety and security
attachment theory
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event that leads to experencing emotion of grief
bereavement
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formal or symbolic act or observance
ceremony
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defense mechanism by which person refuses to see things as they are because such facts are threatening to individuals perception
denial
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mechanism related to repression in which the individual simply denies the existence of the events that have aroused anxiety
denial
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defense mechanism by which anger is directed toward person or object other than one which originally precipitated anger
displaced aggression
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feelings such as happiness, anger or grief
emotions
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alarm, dread and disquiet are associated with..
fear
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an emotion involved in mourning
grief
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killing of one human being by another
homicide
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not only an inn for travelers, but also an institute designed to treat patients stricken with life threating illness
hospice
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an adjustment process which involves grief or sorrow over period of time & helps in reorganization of life of individual following loss or death of someone loved
mourning
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reaction or body may experience that can be sudden, violent and upsetting disturbance
shock
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SIDS
sudden infant death syndrome
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What is SIDS
unexpected, sudden death of seemingly healthy child under age 1, where autopsy does not show explainable cause of death
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deliberate act of self-destruction
suicide
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homicide against one's self
suicide
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suicidal gesture
unsuccessful attempt made by person to end his/her own life
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guilt felt by survivors
survivor's guilt
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sincere feelings for person who is trying to adjust to serious loss or death of close friend or relative
sympathy
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most common emotion shown by parents of baby who died from SIDS
guilt
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external responses to emotions
crying, shouting, laughing, facial expressions, reserved, withdrawl
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first stage of Kubler-Ross's theory of anticipatory grief
Denial & isolation
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second stage of Kubler-Ross's theory
Anger
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DABDA
- Denial
- Anger
- Barganing
- Depression
- Accepance
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grief prior to loss
anticipatory grief
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individuals ability to adjust
adaptation
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Eric Lindemann
grief syndrome
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grief syndrome
- somatic distress
- hallucinations
- guilt
- hostile reactions
- changes in patterns of conduct
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"normally bereaved"
can laugh & show variety of emotions appropriate to environmental shifts
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respond to reassurance, support and comfort
bereaved
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phases associated with Bowlby's theory
- 1-shock, alarm, denial
- 2-acute grief
- 3-intergration of loss and grief
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what Jackson did for topid grief counseling
pastoral ministry counseling
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process of working through grief
mourning
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anger directed inward can lead to..
depression
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four types of guilt
- associated with loss itself;
- induced by lack of knowledge;
- derived from personality factors & from childhood;
- survivor
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lessens degree of pain in grief
mitigation
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being able to carry on daily life tasks, regress to dependency & helplessness during surge of grief
coping
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Parkes' searching theory
compulsive need to go after & retrieve that which has been lost
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Western society known for being..
death-denying
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type of counseling involves helping people facilitate uncomplicated grief
grief canceling
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Lindemann defination grief
somatic distress, hallucinations, guilt, hostile reactions, changes in patterns of conduct; grief syndrome
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Grollman - child between ages of 5-9 to comprehend death how
think person may jump out of casket & "get them"
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Grollman - typical 6 year old would respond to their parent's death how
- accept death as final but may not happen to everyone;
- personify death
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types of death would allow for anticipatory grief
where actual cause of death comes as confirmation of knowledge of life-limiting condition (AIDS)
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philosophical purpose of fineral
focal point for giving meaning to life
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bargaining stage for Kubler-Ross's theory
third
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Worden
- "tasks of mourning"
- accept reality, experience pain & express emptions, adjust to environment without deceased, withdrawl emotional energy & direct in another relationship
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first part to Worden's theory
accept reality of loss
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emotion/set of emotions due to loss that is involved in work of mourning; intense emotions associated with loss
greif
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process of working through grief
mourning
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three types of suicide defined by Durkheim
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lack of social; experiences alienation, strong sense of anonymity, no worth
anomic suicide
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focused on "self"
egoistic suicide
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loss of identity, self-sacrifice for benefit of group
altruistic suicide
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defense mechanism used in grief to return to more familiar & often more primative mode of coping
regression
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being without power to help oneself; feeble or weak; feeling incompetent & inefficient
helplessness
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for some, to be tolerable after a loss, life must have..
meaning, adiquate insurance
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may be values or purpose of having funeral with body present
opportunity to receive & express love; show respect; express grief; face to face confrontation with death; emotional support
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benefits of having children present at funeral
- important family event;
- allows they to say goodbye & helps prevent fears
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positive ways to describe death to child
share your own convictions, speak in concrete terms, grant permission to cry & express feelings
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grief of family member influenced by
functional position or roll deceased played in family, attachment
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NOT to say to children
they fell asleep
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